When are you ready to move on? The million dollar question
that no one else can answer for you. We all go through so much in our lives
that it’s hard to put the brakes on things like the pursuit of love in order to
get your mind right. That way you can be better prepared and mentally able to
be in a healthy relationship. I'm sure you have heard the old wives tale that
it takes the same amount of time you invested in another before you can fully
get over them. That’s a good rule of thumb but not always a truth. Like
everything in life, it all depends on the different factors such as how much
you emotionally invested, how the relationship was, how it ended, etc. For me,
I feel like I’ve been in a constant rebound rotation. After a break-up, within
two weeks I was already going on dates with others or entertaining the text
messages of others. The hardest thing it seems to be single, especially when
you feel the need to fill that void. Although it’s so hard, it ultimately will
make any future relationship a lot better. Heal so you can be a better partner.

What can you do in the meantime? Find a new hobby. Exercise
and get back in shape. Set yourself some personal goals you can focus on to
take your mind off of the need to fill the void your ex has left you with. Read
through a book list. Etc.
What you are going through is something we all face and as
hard as it is to be alone, it’s worse to sabotage any new relationship due to
the scars of an old one.
What are the different ways you get through relationships?
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