Life After the End of Love
I would love to sit here and spout sonnets to you about the
love of my life, feeling loved, and the romantic evenings I spend with my loved
one but alas, that is not the case. I wouldn’t even begin to be able to explain
love as I have felt it before because it isn’t congruent with my current
feelings and to attempt such a task would be an atrocity to the beauty of love.
So today I will tell you not of love but the absence of it. HEARTBREAK.
Most of us have experienced it, and if you have been lucky enough
to avoid it, well tell us all your secrets! The feeling of a breaking heart to
me feels like an elephant is standing on your heart. The weight of the
heaviness makes it difficult to move, feel, think, eat, sleep, drink, etc. It
can cause you to spontaneously cry or eat or do irrational things. There’s no
cure for a broken heart, rather only with the passing of time will you be able
to cope with the loss and move on. It would be wise to forgive yourself of all
the random crazy things you find yourself doing in this period because there’s
no need to make the load of emotion coming down on you harder to bear than it
already is.
Of course I could hit you with the “plenty of fish in the
sea” saying but I say forget about them fish! You have to focus your efforts on
yourself and making yourself a better person. Anyone meant to cross your path will
do so at the appropriate time. Things happen for a reason and whenever they are
meant to. Sometimes when you force things, that’s when it all epically fails.
You awaken 10 years later, married, fat, 15 kids and unhappy with someone who
doesn’t know you exist. Know your worth, never settle, and forgive yourself
when you waste time with someone who didn’t deserve it. The heartbreak will go
away and there’s someone out there for everyone.
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